It was at this point my spouse told me “Don’t plan for extra help around the house while you do this. It will be on top of the things you are already doing. I may not be available to help you because things may be hectic at work for me.” Oops. We never discussed the new division of labor. I just assumed I would get help, because that’s what a woman would do.
www.workingmomsagainstguilt.com to read on.